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  • Las Vegas --Swimming Pool

    We went along with my daughter's family (Siri her husband Hari and two lovely daughters Anyu and Shivani).In Lasvegas we stayed in Residence Inn Marriott.We took a rental car and one day went to Lake Mead and Hoover Dam,second day we spent seeing different Casinos.The Casinos we liked are Ballageo, the theme of which is flowers and is the best one in ambiance.The second one is Ceaser's Palace with beautiful statues,the other ones are Venice with theme of Canals and New york-New york.The third day we went to West Rim of Grand canyon about which i will make a seperate Blog entry.

    On fourth day we are returning to Minneapolis. In the flight my elder grand daughter(six years old) and air hostess became pally pally.The air hostess after listening to the trip details my Anyu was giving asked her which part of the trip was "WOW" for her. Anyu thought for a while and said swimming pool in the Hotel as the kids spent most of the time in the pool when we are not visiting places because of the heat in Vegas.

  • Role Model

    Very little thought i have given to figure it in my mind who was my Role Model.I used to share with my family members and friends that there are three persons whose impact i feel strongly even now.One is Dr Jaswant M Singh a famous Psychiatrist and a well known trainer who specialized in the theory of Transactional Analysis.The second one was K.R.Venugopal a famous I.A.S officer known for his integrity, honesty whose last posting was with Prime Minister's Office.The third one was N.N.Mahajan who was my Managing Director while i was working in Delhi.He is suave sophisticated and a man with vision.

    I came to Minneapolis(U.S.A)on 6th may to be with my elder daughter for some time.On 8th she has to go to Atlanta on official visit and the morning flight was at 5.30 am and she has to leave the house at 4 am.Exactly at 3.45 am i got up without alarm and watched (through my bed room window) my daughter leaving for airport at 4 am in her car.She has returned at 11 pm in the night and i was awake to know and feel comfortable that she has arrived safely.At about 12 in the middle of the night, suddenly i have realized that my father was my role model and the three persons mentioned above are my Mentors.My father did not leave any properties/physical assets to us but taught us values of life and how to take care of people with love and affection.The way he treated us as friends when we children grew up and the way he took care of my mother as they are becoming old are permanently etched in my memory.I have realized that role model in child's psyche will be formed at a young and impressionable age,not after he/she grows up.

  • Father's day !

    Every year 3rd Sunday of June is celebrated as Father's day to complement Mother's day. This year it fell on 21st June .The first father's day was, it appears, celebrated by Sonara Smart Dodd of Washingaon for her father.This obviously means once in a year you thank your father and give gift to him.The issue is what about other days ?

    I am lucky to have two daughters and all the days i am with them in their place of residence are Father days for me.Recently i went on 15 days vacation to my second daughter's (Shilpa) place in Bombay(India)and every single moment she was so caring and loving that it is as if a continuous father's days for me.Now i am in Minneapolis with my elder daughter(Sirisha)from 6th of May.She being a working mother of two with a loving husband takes such a care of me ,my Son in law says that she is taking care of me more than him and his kids.He say he is going to fight for Husband's day.

    The bonding which develops between dad and daughter during earlier days when father acts as a guide, coach and mentor which makes the life of father so wonderful when being with daughters at latter days.I am highly thankful to The God for giving such TWO Wonderful Daughters to me.

  • Do Re Me So Fa La Ti

    My elder daughter IS known AS THE BRAINY ONE IN THE FAMILY.After her 12th exams her Central School Prinicipal telephoned about her student ( my daughter) getting 100 marks out of hundred in Biological Sciences.She is the only one to get like that in that year.She was not interested in any extra curricular activities or in Fine Arts except in painting. Finally she ended up as a Soft Ware Engineer in Minneapolis(U.S.A)

    After a long walk i have returned to my daughter's house on the first day of my stay with her.As i am entering i heard the beautiful sound of piano with nice humming(the song i can make out is London Bridge Is falling Down, falling Down).It was my daughter on Piano .I was so surprised and felt very happy to see the musical side of my daughter.She then explained to me that my elder grand daughter is learning piano from Macphail School under Suzuki method .The parents under this method are also expected/encouraged to learn and practice along with the student so that they can guide their children in their learning process.

    The philosophy of Shinichi Suzuki is "Children will grow according to the LAW OF ABILITY. Everything depends on the method of nurturing.Every child is a wonderful creature,a precious being.THE DESTINY OF A CHILD IS IN HIS/HER PARENT'S HANDS"

  • STORY OF THE WATCH

    1984
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    We were travelling from Delhi to Hyderabad on vacation.I was going through the in- flight magazine and my eyes got glued to the page where my favourite watch "RADO Jubile"with sapphire crystal case and ceramic strap was advertised.My elder daughter who is sitting next to me saw and said "Dad don't worry i will get that watch for you when i get a job(she was studying 10th at that time)
    2002
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    Myself and my wife went to Minneapolis to be with my daughter who is working thereat as a soft ware engineer.In a lighter vein i reminded her of the assurance about the Rado watch.Before my leaving back to India she got a beautiful MOVADO(Museum Watch)as a presentation.
    2007
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    I was returning from Saudi Arabia after attending a board meeting arranged by the Company EXENSYS and on the way back at Dubai Duty Free shop i have picked up a RADO JUBILE WATCH with leather strap and without stem(Key Rod).That was a Black Beauty.
    2009
    ------
    We came to Minneapolis to be with my daughter for three months.As there is a time difference, me and my daughter took the watch for time adjustment and in whole of Minneapolis no watch shop(including those in the MALL OF AMERICA)were in a position to help us as they are not having the necessary instrument to make the time adjustment as there is no stem to the watch.I now know that in whole of my stay in U.S i cannot wear my Rado as i will be travelling to different parts of America with different time zones and in every place i will face the same problem.

  • Discovering Chandu

    In the Face book at the request of Jyostna i have added her to my friend's list.

    When she came to know that i am coming to U.S on 6th may she has extended her

    invitation to visit her family in Richmond.When i came to U.S i told about the

    invitation of Jyostna and my son in law and daughter were surprised as i do not

    know jyostna though her face looked familiar and obviously she is from India.

    Because of her curly hair and sparkling face i thought she may be from Kerala/Tamilnadu

    as her husband,s name ends with Kuppuswamy.A friend of mine from University days(Sharada)

    came to Maryland in U.S and i had a detailed talk with her sharing the trials and

    tribulations of being with grand children

    She informed me that another friend of us Jyothirmayi has also come to U.S and as she gave

    her number i telephoned to her .She told me that she is staying in Richmond with her

    daughter. Then i told her that i may come to Richmond to see Jyostna and then i will also

    come to their house.SHE BURSTS OUT LAUGHING SAYING THAT JYOSTNA IS HER DAUGHTER.

    Then i have realised that i Know Jyostna by her nick name CHANDU (met her a few years back

    in India) and her husband as

    Nandakumar whose full name is Nandakumar Kuppuswamy.

    That is how i have rediscoverd CHANDU

  • Story of Two Watches

    That was 2007, my elder daughter Siri with her husband Hari and two grand daughters Ananya and Shivani came to India to be with us for a month.At the time of their leaving I gave to my son in law a nice Tissot watch(costing around Rs 20,000) as a gift.

    Now me and my wife Pramila came to U.S.A on 6th may to be with them in Minneapolis for three months.I have observed that Hari is not wearing the watch which i gave but some other watch which costs around Rs 2000/ . Out of curiosity i asked him what happened to the Tissot watch. He said a bit ruefully that it is not working.I was surprised and asked him why he did not get it checked .He said with a bit of hesitation that he is not having enough time to get it repaired.I told him on the night of 6th june the story of my wife saving every month Rs 20 In the year 1972 for a period of 11 moths to purchase a new HMT watch for me as at the time of my marriage in 1971 i was wearing a second hand watch given by my elder brother(P.P.Rao).I told him that it took 11 months of saving by my wife to purchase a new watch for me which i treasure even now ( the watch is still in working condition) though i do not wear it.

    Today is 8th June their 12th wedding anniversary day and my son in law took the Tissot watch and got the old battery replaced and started wearing it as it started working.

  • WOULD YOU LIKE TO LEARN

    A young man learns what's most important in life from the guy next door.

    It had been some time since Jack had seen the old man... College, girls, career, and life itself got in the way. In fact, Jack moved clear across the country in pursuit of his dreams... There, in the rush of his busy life, Jack had little time to think about the past and often no time to spend with his wife and son. He was working on his future, and nothing could stop him.

    Over the phone, his mother told him, 'Mr. Belser died last night. The funeral is Wednesday.' Memories flashed through his mind like an old newsreel as he sat quietly remembering his childhood days.!

    'Jack, did you hear me?'

    'Oh, sorry, Mom. Yes, I heard you... It's been so long since I thought of him. I'm sorry, but I honestly thought he died years ago,' Jack said.

    'Well, he didn't forget you. Every time I saw him he'd ask how you were doing. He'd reminisce about the many days you spent over 'his side of the fence' as he put it,' Mom told him.

    'I loved that old house he lived in,' Jack said.

    'You know, Jack, after your father died, Mr. Belser stepped in to make sure you had a man's influence in your life,' she said

    'He's the one who taught me carpentry,' he said. 'I wouldn't be in this business if it weren't for him. He spent a lot of time teaching me things he thought were important...Mom, I'll be there for the funeral,' Jack said.

    As busy as he was, he kept his word. Jack caught the next flight to his hometown. Mr. Belser's funeral was small and uneventful. He had no children of his own, and most of his relatives had passed away.

    The night before he had to return home, Jack and his Mom stopped by to see the old house next door one more time.

    Standing in the doorway, Jack paused for a moment. It was like crossing over into another dimension, a leap through space and time The house was exactly as he remembered. Every step held memories. Every picture, every piece of furniture....Jack stopped suddenly.

    'What's wrong, Jack?' his Mom asked.

    'The box is gone,' he said

    'What box?' Mom asked.

    'There was a small gold box that he kept locked on top of his desk. I must have asked him a thousand times what was inside. All he'd ever tell me was 'the thing I value most,'' Jack said.

    It was gone. Everything about the house was exactly how Jack remembered it, except for the box. He figured someone from the Belser family had taken it.

    'Now I'll never know what was so valuable to him,' Jack said. 'I better get some sleep. I have an early flight home, Mom.'

    It had been about two weeks since Mr. Belser died. Returning home from work one day Jack discovered a note in his mailbox. 'Signature required on a package. No one at home. Please stop by the main post office within the next three days,' the note read.

    Early the next day Jack retrieved the package. The small box was old and looked like it had been mailed a hundred years ago. The handwriting was difficult to read, but the return address caught his attention. 'Mr. Harold Belser' it read. Jack took the box out to his car and ripped open the package. There inside was the gold box and an envelope. Jack's hands shook as he read the note inside.

    'Upon my death, please forward this box and its contents to Jack Bennett. It's the thing I valued most in my life.' A small key was taped to the letter. His heart racing, as tears filling his eyes, Jack carefully unlocked the box. There inside he found a beautiful gold pocket watch.

    Running his fingers slowly over the finely etched casing, he unlatched the cover. Inside he found these words engraved:

    'Jack, Thanks for your time! -Harold Belser.'

    'The thing he valued most was...my time'

    Jack held the watch for a few minutes, then called his office and cleared his appointments for the next two days. 'Why?' Janet, his assistant asked.

    'I need some time to spend with my son,' he said.

    'Oh, by the way, Janet, thanks for your time!'

    'Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take but by the moments that take our breath away,'

    Think about this. You may not realize it, but it's 100% true.

  • THREE "M"S

    I have attended the Graduation Ceremony(MBA) of my elder daughter Sirisha(mother of two daughters)

    on 18th may at Carlson School of Management(Minnesota University).The Commencement Speaker

    was Sherron Watkins Former Vice President of Enron Corporation and one of the three

    Whistle blowers named by "TIME" magazine as their 2002 Persons of the Year

    In her speech she talked about speaking up, speaking out when you observe some injustice or

    some irregularity that is being committed either in work place or in the community.She said

    one has to speak out if one is not sure whether it stands to the TEST of 3 "M"s

    The first one is whether you Mentor will approve of the things which you have observed

    happening and your conscious says it is not the right thing

    The second test is whether you will have the guts to stand up before the Media scrutiny

    The third test is if your Mother knows about it whether she will approve it or not.

    How simple but effective the Test is.Would you like to adopt this as a way to speak up

    and speak out in Future ?

  • SPEAK UP--SPEAK OUT

    I went today to Macphail School of Music in Paideia Academy Applevalley (Minneapolis-U.S.A)

    to be with my grand daughter Ananya who is learning Piano in Suzuki school and saw a poster

    which is having following Quotation:

    "First they came for the Jews but I was not a Jew I did not speak out

    Then they came for the Communists,but i was not a Communist so I did not speak out

    Then they came for the Trade Unionists,but I was not a Trade Unionist so I did not speak out

    And when they came for Me , there was no one left to Speak out for ME"

    (PASTOR MARTIN NIEMOLLER)

    The Question WE have to ask for ourselves now is are WE raising VOICE against

    INJUSTICE when we see IT ?

  • Woman's logic

    AFTER BEING MARRIED FOR 44 YEARS, I TOOK A CAREFUL LOOK AT MY WIFE ONE DAY AND SAID, "FORTY-FOUR YEARS AGO WE HAD A CHEAP APARTMENT, A CHEAP CAR, SLEPT ON A SOFA BED AND WATCHED A 10-INCH BLACK AND WHITE TV, BUT I GOT TO SLEEP EVERY NIGHT WITH A HOT 25-YEAR-OLD GIRL"..

    NOW I HAVE A $1,500,000.00 HOME, A $45,000.00 CAR, NICE BIG BED AND PLASMA SCREEN TV, BUT I'M SLEEPING WITH A 69-YEAR-OLD WOMAN. IT SEEMS TO ME THAT YOU'RE NOT HOLDING UP YOUR SIDE OF THINGS.'

    MY WIFE IS A VERY REASONABLE WOMAN. SHE TOLD ME TO GO OUT AND FIND A HOT 25-YEAR-OLD GIRL AND SHE WOULD MAKE SURE THAT I WOULD ONCE AGAIN BE LIVING IN A CHEAP APARTMENT, DRIVING A CHEAP CAR, SLEEPING ON A SOFA BED AND WATCHING A 10-INCH BLACK AND WHITE TV.

    AREN'T OLDER WOMEN GREAT? THEY REALLY KNOW HOW TO SOLVE YOUR MID-LIFE CRISES!
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  • GRANDPARENTS

    WHAT IS A GRANDPARENT?
    (Taken from papers written by a class of 8-year-olds)

    Grandparents are a lady and a man who have no little children of their own. They like other people's.

    A grandfather is a man, & a grandmother is a lady!

    Grandparents don't have to do anything except be there when we come to see them. They are so old they shouldn't play hard or run. It is good if they drive us to the shops and give us money.

    When they take us for walks, they slow down past things like pretty leaves and caterpillars.

    They show us and talk to us about the colors of the flowers and also why we shouldn't step on 'cracks..'

    They don't say, 'Hurry up.'

    Usually grandmothers are fat but not too fat to tie your shoes.

    They wear glasses and false teeth

    They can take their teeth and gums out.

    Grandparents don't have to be smart.

    They have to answer questions like 'Why isn't God married?' and 'How come dogs chase cats?'

    When they read to us, they don't skip. They don't mind if we ask for the same story over again.

    Everybody should try to have a grandmother, especially if you don't have television because they are the only grownups who like to spend time with us.

    They know we should have snack time before bed time, and they say prayers with us and kiss us even when we've acted bad.

    GRANDPA IS THE SMARTEST MAN ON EARTH! HE TEACHES ME GOOD THINGS, BUT I DON'T GET TO SEE HIM ENOUGH TO GET AS SMART AS HIM!

  • THANKS FOR THE TIME

    A young man learns what's most important in life from the guy next door.

    It had been some time since Jack had seen the old man... College, girls, career, and life itself got in the way. In fact, Jack moved clear across the country in pursuit of his dreams... There, in the rush of his busy life, Jack had little time to think about the past and often no time to spend with his wife and son. He was working on his future, and nothing could stop him.

    Over the phone, his mother told him, 'Mr. Belser died last night. The funeral is Wednesday.' Memories flashed through his mind like an old newsreel as he sat quietly remembering his childhood days.!

    'Jack, did you hear me?'

    'Oh, sorry, Mom. Yes, I heard you... It's been so long since I thought of him. I'm sorry, but I honestly thought he died years ago,' Jack said.

    'Well, he didn't forget you. Every time I saw him he'd ask how you were doing. He'd reminisce about the many days you spent over 'his side of the fence' as he put it,' Mom told him.

    'I loved that old house he lived in,' Jack said.

    'You know, Jack, after your father died, Mr. Belser stepped in to make sure you had a man's influence in your life,' she said

    'He's the one who taught me carpentry,' he said. 'I wouldn't be in this business if it weren't for him. He spent a lot of time teaching me things he thought were important...Mom, I'll be there for the funeral,' Jack said.

    As busy as he was, he kept his word. Jack caught the next flight to his hometown. Mr. Belser's funeral was small and uneventful. He had no children of his own, and most of his relatives had passed away.

    The night before he had to return home, Jack and his Mom stopped by to see the old house next door one more time.

    Standing in the doorway, Jack paused for a moment. It was like crossing over into another dimension, a leap through space and time The house was exactly as he remembered. Every step held memories. Every picture, every piece of furniture....Jack stopped suddenly.

    'What's wrong, Jack?' his Mom asked.

    'The box is gone,' he said

    'What box?' Mom asked.

    'There was a small gold box that he kept locked on top of his desk. I must have asked him a thousand times what was inside. All he'd ever tell me was 'the thing I value most,'' Jack said.

    It was gone. Everything about the house was exactly how Jack remembered it, except for the box. He figured someone from the Belser family had taken it.

    'Now I'll never know what was so valuable to him,' Jack said. 'I better get some sleep. I have an early flight home, Mom.'

    It had been about two weeks since Mr. Belser died. Returning home from work one day Jack discovered a note in his mailbox. 'Signature required on a package. No one at home. Please stop by the main post office within the next three days,' the note read.

    Early the next day Jack retrieved the package. The small box was old and looked like it had been mailed a hundred years ago. The handwriting was difficult to read, but the return address caught his attention. 'Mr. Harold Belser' it read. Jack took the box out to his car and ripped open the package. There inside was the gold box and an envelope. Jack's hands shook as he read the note inside.

    'Upon my death, please forward this box and its contents to Jack Bennett. It's the thing I valued most in my life.' A small key was taped to the letter. His heart racing, as tears filling his eyes, Jack carefully unlocked the box. There inside he found a beautiful gold pocket watch.

    Running his fingers slowly over the finely etched casing, he unlatched the cover. Inside he found these words engraved:

    'Jack, Thanks for your time! -Harold Belser.'

    'The thing he valued most was...my time'

    Jack held the watch for a few minutes, then called his office and cleared his appointments for the next two days. 'Why?' Janet, his assistant asked.

    'I need some time to spend with my son,' he said.

    'Oh, by the way, Janet, thanks for your time!'

    'Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take but by the moments that take our breath away,'

  • G U I D A N C E

    When i meditated on the word ‘Guidance’,
    I kept seeing "dance" at the end of the word.
    I remember reading that doing God's will is a lot like dancing.
    When two people try to lead, nothing feels right.
    The movement doesn't flow with the music,
    and everything is quite uncomfortable and jerky.
    When one person realizes that, and lets the other lead,
    both bodies begin to flow with the music.
    One gives gentle cues, perhaps with a nudge to the back
    or by pressing lightly in one direction or another.
    It's as if two become one body, moving beautifully.
    The dance takes surrender, willingness,
    and attentiveness from one person
    and gentle guidance and skill from the other.
    My eyes drew back to the word ‘Guidance’
    When I saw "G": I thought of “God”, followed by "u" and "i"
    "God, "u" and "i" dance."
    God, you, and I dance.
    As I lowered my head, I became willing to trust
    that I would get guidance about my life.
    Once again, I became willing to let God lead.

    (Thanks to Dr Hegde & his friend)

  • MY MOTHER''S TEACHINGS

    1. My mother taught me TO APPRECIATE A JOB WELL DONE .
    "If you're going to kill each other, do it outside. I just finished cleaning."

    2. My mother taught me RELIGION.
    "You better pray that will come out of the carpet."

    3. My mother taught me about TIME TRAVEL .
    "If you don't straighten up, I'm going to knock you into the middle of next week!"

    4. My mother taught me LOGIC.
    " Because I said so, that's why."

    5. My mother taught me MORE LOGIC.
    "If you fall out of that swing and break your neck, you're not going to the store with me."

    6. My mother taught me FORESIGHT.
    "Make sure you wear clean underwear, in case you're in an accident."

    7. My mother taught me IRONY
    "Keep crying, and I'll give you something to cry about."

    8. My mother taught me about the science of OSMOSIS.
    "Shut your mouth and eat your supper."

    9. My mother taught me about CONTORTIONISM.
    "Will you look at that dirt on the back of your neck!"

    10. My mother taught me about STAMINA.
    "You'll sit there until all that spinach is gone."

    11. My mother taught me about WEATHER.
    "This room of yours looks as if a tornado went through it."

    12. My mother taught me about HYPOCRISY.
    "If I told you once, I've told you a million times. Don't exaggerate!"

    13. My mother taught me the CIRCLE OF LIFE.
    "I brought you into this world, and I can take you out."

    14. My mother taught me about BEHAVIOR MODIFICATION.
    "Stop acting like your father!"

    15. My mother taught me about ENVY .
    "There are millions of less fortunate children in this world who don't have wonderful parents like you do."

    16. My mother taught me about ANTICIPATION.
    "Just wait until we get home."

    17. My mother taught me about RECEIVING .
    "You are going to get it when you get home!"

    18. My mother taught me MEDICAL SCIENCE.
    "If you don't stop crossing your eyes, they are going to freeze that way."

    19. My mother taught me ESP.
    "Put your sweater on; don't you think I know when you are cold?"

    20. My mother taught me HUMOR.
    "When that lawn mower cuts off your toes, don't come running to me."

    21. My mother taught me HOW TO BECOME AN ADULT .
    "If you don't eat your vegetables, you'll never grow up."

    22. My mother taught me GENETICS.
    "You're just like your father."

    23. My mother taught me about my ROOTS.
    "Shut that door behind you. Do you think you were born in a barn?"

    24. My mother taught me WISDOM.
    "When you get to be my age, you'll understand."

    25. And my favorite: My mother taught me about JUSTICE.
    "One day you'll have kids, and I hope they turn out just like you!
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  • MOTHER

    Why mother is so special:

    When I came home in the rain,

    Brother asked why didn't you take an umbrella.

    Sister advised, Why didn't you wait till rain stopped.

    Father angrily warned, only after getting cold, you will realize.

    But Mother, while drying my hair, said, stupid rain! Couldn't

    it wait, till my child came home?

    That Is MOM !

  • Love & Concern

    My wife called, 'How long will you be with that newspaper?Will you come here & make your darling daughter eat her food?’

    I tossed the paper away & rushed to the scene. My only daughter, Bindu, looked frightened; tears were welling up in her eyes. In front of her was a bowl filled to its brim with curd rice. Bindu is a nice child, quite intelligent for her age.
    I picked up the bowl. 'Bindu darling, why don't you take a few mouthful of this curd rice? Just for Dad's sake dear. Bindu calmed a bit & wiped her tears with the back of her hands. 'Ok, Dad.. I will eat - not just a few mouthfuls, but the whole lot of this. But, you should...' Bindu hesitated. 'Dad, if I eat this entire curd rice, will you give me whatever I ask for?'

    'Promise'. I covered the pink soft hand extended by my daughter with mine, & clinched the deal.

    Slowly & wihout relishing much , she finished eating the whole quantity. I was silently angry with my wife & my mother for forcing my child to eat something that she detested.

    After the ordeal was through, Bindu came to me with her eyes wide with expectation. All our attention was on her.

    'Dad, I want to have my head shaved off, this Sunday!' was her demand.

    'Atrocious!' shouted my wife & my mother was furious, 'A girl child having her head shaved off? Impossible!' 'Never in our family!'

    'Bindu, darling, why don't you ask for something else? We’ll be sad seeing you with a clean-shaven head.'

    you promised to grant me whatever I ask for. Now, you are going back on your words.

    It was time for me to call the shots. 'Our promise must be kept.' 'Are you out of your mind?' chorused my mother & wife. 'No. If we go back on our promises, she will never learn to honour her own. Bindu, your wish will be fulfilled.'

    On Monday morning, I dropped her at her school. It was a sight to watch my hairless Bindu walking towards her classroom. She turned around & waved.

    I waved back with a smile. Just then, a boy alighted from a car & shouted, 'Bindu, please wait for me!'

    What struck me was the hairless head of that boy. 'May be, that is the latest fashion, I thought.

    'Sir, your daughter Bindu is great indeed!' Without introducing herself, a lady got out of the car, & continued, 'that boy who is walking along with your daughter is my son James. He is suffering from... leukemia'.

    She paused to muffle her sobs. 'James could not attend the school for the whole of the last month. He lost all his hair due to the side effects of the chemotherapy. He refused to come back to school fearing the unintentional but cruel teasing of the schoolmates. Bindu visited him last week & promised him that she will take care of the teasing issue. But, I never imagined she would sacrifice her lovely hair for the sake of my son!

    Sir, you & your wife are blessed to have such a noble soul as your daughter..'

    I stood transfixed & then, I wept. 'My little Angel, you are teaching me how selfless real love is!'

    “The happiest people are not those who live on their own terms…………but are those who change their terms for the ones whom they love

  • Garbage Truck

    Law of the Garbage Truck
    One day I hopped in a taxi and we took off for the airport. We were driving in the right lane when suddenly a black car jumped out of a parking space right in front of us. My taxi driver slammed on his brakes, skidded, and missed the other car by just inches!
    The driver of the other car whipped his head around and started yelling at us. My taxi driver just smiled and waved at the guy. And I mean, he was really friendly. So I asked, 'Why did you just do that? This guy almost ruined your car and sent us to the hospital!' This is when my taxi driver taught me what I now call, 'The Law of the Garbage Truck.'
    He explained that many people are like garbage trucks. They run around full of garbage, full of frustration, full of anger, and full of disappointment.
    As their garbage piles up, they need a place to dump it and sometimes they'll dump it on you. Don't take it personally.
    Just smile, wave, wish them well, and move on. Don't take their garbage and spread it to other people at work, at home, or on the streets.
    The bottom line is that successful people do not let garbage trucks take over their
    day. Life's too short to wake up in the morning with regrets, so...
    Love the people who treat you right. Pray for the ones who don't.
    Life is ten percent what you make it and ninety percent of how you take it!
    Have a blessed, garbage-free day!
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  • COWBOY BOOTS

    Anyone who has ever dressed a child will love this one!

    Did you hear about the Texas teacher who was helping one of her kindergarten students put on his cowboy boots? He asked for help & she could see why.

    Even with her pulling and him pushing, the little boots still didn't want to go on. Finally, when the 2nd boot was on, she had worked up a sweat.

    She almost cried when the little boy said, "Teacher, they're on the wrong feet." She looked and sure enough, they were. It wasn't any easier pulling the boots off than it was putting them on. She managed to keep her cool as together they worked to get the boots back on, this time on the right feet.

    He then announced, "These aren't my boots."

    She bit her tongue rather than get right in his face and scream, "Why didn't you say so?" like she wanted to. And, once again she struggled to help him pull the ill-fitting boots off his little feet.

    No sooner they got the boots off and he said, "They're my brother's boots. My Mom made me wear 'em."

    Now she didn't know if she should laugh or cry. But, she mustered up the grace and courage she had left to wrestle the boots on his feet again.

    Helping him into his coat, she asked, "Now, where are your mittens?"

    He said, "I stuffed 'em in the toes of my boots."

    Her trial starts next month . . !

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  • LOVE

    Once upon a time, there was an island where all the feelings lived:

    Happiness, Sadness, Knowledge, and all of the others, including Love.

    One day it was announced to the feelings that the island would sink,

    so all constructed boats and left. Except for Love.

    Love was the only one who stayed.

    Love wanted to hold out until the last possible moment.

    When the island had almost sunk, Love decided to ask for help.

    Richness was passing by Love in a grand boat.

    Love said, “Richness, can you take me with you?”

    Richness answered, “No, I can’t. There is a lot of gold and silver in my boat.

    There is no place here for you.”

    Love decided to ask Vanity who was also passing by in a beautiful vessel.

    “Vanity, please help me!” “I can’t help you, Love.

    You are all wet and might damage my boat,” Vanity answered.

    Sadness was close by so Love asked,

    “Sadness, let me go with you.”

    “Oh . . . Love, I am so sad that I need to be by myself!”

    Happiness passed by Love, too, but she was so happy that she did not even

    hear when Love called her.

    Suddenly, there was a voice, “Come, Love, I will take you.”

    It was an elder. So blessed and overjoyed,

    Love even forgot to ask the elder where they were going.

    When they arrived at dry land, the elder went his own way.

    Realizing how much was owed the elder,

    Love asked Knowledge, another elder, “Who Helped me?”

    “It was Time,” Knowledge answered.

    “Time?” asked Love. “But why did Time help me?”

    Knowledge smiled with deep wisdom and answered,

    “Because only Time is capable of understanding how valuable Love is.”

  • Kid"s Version

    This comes from a elementary school. Kids were asked questions about the Old and New Testaments. The following statements about the Bible were written by children. They have not been retouched or corrected. (Incorrect spelling has been left in.)

    1. In the first book of the bible, Guinessis, God got tired of creating the world, so he took the Sabbath off.

    2. Adam and Eve were created from an apple tree. Noah's wife was called Joan of Ark. Noah built an ark, which the animals come on to in pears.

    3. Lot's wife was a pillar of salt by day, but a ball of fire by night.

    4. The Jews were a proud people and throughout history they had trouble with the unsympathetic Genitals.

    5. Samson was a strong man who let himself be led astray by a Jezebel like Delilah.

    6. Samson slayed the Philistines with the axe of the Apostles

    7. Moses led the Hebrews to the Red Sea, where they made unleavened bread which is bread without any ingredients.

    8. The Egyptians were all drowned in the dessert. Afterwards, Moses went up on Mount Cyanide to get the ten ammendments.

    9. The first commandment was when Eve told Adam to eat the apple.

    10. The seventh commandment is thou shalt not admit adultery.

    11. Moses died before he ever reached Canada. Then Joshua led the Hebrews in the battle of Geritol.

    12. The greatest miracle in the Bible is when Joshua told his son to stand still and he obeyed him.

    13. David was a Hebrew king skilled at playing the liar. He fought with the Finklesteins, race of people who lived in Biblical times.

    14. Solomon, one of David's sons, had 300 wives and 700 porcupines.

    15. When Mary heard that she was the mother of Jesus, she sang the Magna Carta.

    16. When the three wise guys from the East side arrived, they found Jesus in the manager.

    17. Jesus was born because Mary had an immaculate contraption.

    18. St. John the blacksmith dumped water on his head.

    19. Jesus enunciated the Golden Rule, which says to do one to others before they do one to you. He also explained, "a man doth not live by sweat alone."

    20. It was a miracle when Jesus rose from the dead and managed to get the tombstone off the entrance.

    21. The people who followed the Lord were called the 12 decibels.

    22. The epistles were the wives of the apostles.

    23. One of the oppossums was St. Matthew who was also a taximan.

    24. St. Paul cavorted to Christianity. He preached holy acrimony, which is another name for marriage.

    25. Christians have only one spouse. This is called monotony

  • C.E.O AND THE TEACHER

    The dinner guests were sitting around the table discussing life.. One man, who is a CEO of a multinational decided to explain the problem with education.

    He argued, 'What's a kid going to learn from someone who decided his best option in life was to become a teacher?' He reminded the other dinner guests what they say about teachers: 'Those who can, do. Those who can't, teach.'

    To emphasize his point he said to another guest; 'You're a teacher, Shireen. Be honest. What do you make?'

    Shireen, who had a reputation for honesty and frankness replied, 'You want to know what I make?
    (She paused for a second, then began...)

    'Well, I make kids work harder than they ever thought they could.

    I make a C+ feel like the Congressional Medal of Honor.

    I make kids sit through 40 minutes of class time when their parents can't make them sit for 5 without an I Pod, Game Cube or movie CD.

    You want to know what I make?' (She paused again and looked at each and every person at the table.)

    I make kids wonder.

    I make them question.

    I make them apologize and mean it.

    I make them have respect and take responsibility for their actions.

    I teach them to write and then I make them write.

    Keyboarding isn't everything.

    I make them read, read, read.

    I make them show all their work in math. They use their God-given brain, not the man-made calculator.

    I make my students from other countries learn everything they need to know in English while preserving their unique cultural identity.

    I make my classroom a place where all my students feel safe.

    I make them understand that if they use the gifts they were given, work hard, and follow their hearts, they can succeed in life.. '

    After a final pause Shireen said

    'Then, when people try to judge me by what I make, with me knowing money isn't everything, I can hold my head up high and pay no attention because they are ignorant... You want to know what I make?

    I MAKE A DIFFERENCE. What do you make Mr. CEO?'

    His jaw dropped, he went silent.
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  • ECONOMIC CRISIS--IMPACT !!!!!

    Batman and Robin are now Batman and Pedro. Batman fired Robin and hired Pedro because Pedro was willing to work twice the hours at the same rate!!

    Iron man now "air-pooling" with Superman to save fuel costs?!!

    A director decided to award a prize of Rs.1000 for the best idea for saving the company money during the recession. It was won by a young executive who suggested reducing the prize money to Rs. 100.

    Women finally marrying for love! And not money!

    Q: With the current market turmoil, what's the easiest way to make a small fortune?
    A: Start off with a large one.

    Q: What's the difference between an investment banker and a large pizza?
    A: A large pizza can feed a family of four.

    Q: What's the difference between an American and a Zimbabwean?
    A: In a few weeks, nothing.

    Q What’s the difference between a bond and a bond trader?
    A. A bond matures.

    Q. Did you hear Goldman Sachs has a new cafeteria?
    A. It’s called the Warren buffet.

    Q: What’s the Capital of Iceland?
    A: About 70 cents.

    Recession Bumper Sticker
    The recession is worse than a divorce. You lose half your fortune and still have your wife.

    The Difference between Communism & Capitalism
    In communism we nationalise the banks and then push them to bankruptcy. In capitalism we push the bank to bankruptcy and then nationalise them.

    A priest, a rabbi, and a mortgage broker were all caught in a
    shipwreck. Sharks were soon circling around. The sharks eat the priest. The rabbi starts praying fervently, but to no avail, as the sharks eat him as well. The mortgage broker is really getting worried, as a shark is coming for him. But instead the shark puts him on its back, carries him to shore, and lets him off. The mortgage broker asks, “How come you didn’t eat me too?” And the shark replied,
    “Professional Courtesy!”

    Money talks. Trouble is, it knows only one word: goodbye

  • FORMULA FOR SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGE

    At New Yorkʼs Saint Rocco's Catholic Church they have a weekly husband's marriage seminar. At the session last week, the Priest asked Luigi(AN ITALIAN) who was approaching his 50th wedding anniversary, to take a few minutes & share some insight into how he had managed to stay married to the same woman all these y ears.

    Luigi replied to the assembled husbands, "Wella, I've a-tried to treat-a her nic ea, spenda da money on her, but besta of alla is that I tooka her to Italy for the 25th anniversary!"

    The Priest responded, "Luigi, you are an amazing inspiration to all the husbands here! Please tell us what you are planning for your wife for your 50th anniversary."

    Luigi 20 proudly replied, "I'm agonna go get her!"

  • That is the Difference

    One day a florist goes to a barber for a haircut. After the cut he asked about his bill and the barber replies, 'I cannot accept money from you. I'm doing community service this week.' The florist was pleased and left the shop.

    When the barber goes to open his shop the next morning there is a 'thank you' card and a dozen roses waiting for him at his door.

    Later, a cop comes in for a haircut, and when he tries to pay his bill, the barber again replies, 'I cannot accept money from you. I'm doing community service this week.' The cop is happy and leaves the shop.

    The next morning when the barber goes to open up there is a 'thank you' card and a dozen donuts waiting for him at his door.

    Later that day, a college professor comes in for a haircut, and when he tries to pay his bill, the barber again replies, 'I cannot accept money from you. I'm doing community service this week.' The professor is very happy and leaves the shop.

    The next morning when the barber opens his shop, there is a 'thank you' card and a dozen different books, such as 'How to Improve Your Business' and 'Becoming More Successful.'

    Then, a Member of Parliament/senate comes in for a haircut , and when he goes to pay his bill the barber again replies, 'I cannot accept money from you. I'm doing community service this week.' The Member of Parliament/senate is very happy and leaves the shop.

    The next morning when the barber goes to open up, there are a dozen Members of Parliament/senate lined up waiting for a free haircut.

    And that, my friends, illustrates the fundamental difference between the citizens of our country an mmbers of elected body

  • CHURCH BULLFTIN BLOOPERS

    Thank God for church ladies with typewriters. These sentences actually appeared in church bulletins or were announced in church services:
    * Bertha Belch, a missionary from Africa, will be speaking tonight at Calvary Methodist. Come hear Bertha Belch all the way from Africa.
    * The sermon this morning: "Jesus Walks on the Water." The sermon tonight: "Searching for Jesus."
    * Ladies, don't forget the rummage sale. It's a chance to get rid of those things not worth keeping around the house. Don't forget your husbands
    * The peacemaking meeting scheduled for today has been canceled due to a conflict.
    * Remember in prayer the many who are sick in our community. Smile at someone who is hard to love. Say "Hell" to someone who doesn't care much about you.
    * Don't l et worry kill you off - let the Church help.
    * Miss Charlene Mason sang "I will not pass this way again," giving obvious pleasure to the congregation.
    * For those of you who have children and don't know it, we have a nursery downstairs..
    * Next Thursday there will be tryouts for the choir. They need all the help they can get.
    * The Rector will preach his farewell message after which the choir will sing: "Break Forth Into Joy."
    * Irving Benson and Jessie Carter were married on October 24 in the church. So ends a friendship that began in their school days.
    * A bean supper will be held on Tuesday evening in the church hall.. Music will follow.
    * At the evening service tonight, the sermon topic will be "What Is Hell?" Come early and listen to our choir practice.
    * Eight new choir robes are currently needed due to the addition of several new members and to the deterioration of some older ones.
    * Scouts are saving aluminum cans, bottles and other items to be recycled. Proceeds will be used to cripple children.
    * The church will host an evening of fine dining, super entertainment and gracious hostility.
    * Potluck supper Sunday at 5:00 PM - prayer and medication to follow.
    * The ladies of the Church have cast off clothing of every kind. They may be seen in the basement on Friday afternoon.
    * Ladies Bible Study will be held Thursday morning at 10 AM. All ladies are invited to lunch in the Fellowship Hall after the B. S. is done.
    * Low Self Esteem Support Group will meet Thursday at 7 PM. Please use the back door.
    * The eighth-graders will be presenting Shakespeare's Hamlet in the Church basement Friday at 7 PM. The congregation is invited to attend this tragedy.
    * Weight Watchers will meet at 7 PM at the First Presbyterian Church Please use large double door at the side entrance.
    * The Associate Minister unveiled the church's new tithing campaign slogan last Sunday: "I Upped My Pledge - Up Yours."

  • CANCER UPDATE

    > 1. Every person has cancer cells in the body. These cancer cells do
    > not show up in the standard tests until they have multiplied to a
    > few billion. When doctors tell cancer patients that there are no
    > more cancer cells in their bodies after treatment, it just means the
    > tests are unable to detect the
    > cancer cells because they have not reached the detectable size.

    > 2. Cancer cel ls occur between 6 to more than 10 times in a person's
    > lifetime.
    >
    > 3. When the person's immune system is strong the cancer cells will
    > be destroyed and prevented from multiplying and forming tumours.
    >
    > 4. When a person has cancer it indicates the person has multiple
    > nutritional deficiencies. These could be due to genetic,
    > environmental, food and lifestyle factors.
    >
    > 5. To overcome the multiple nutritional deficiencies, changing diet
    > and including supplements will strengthen the immune system.
    >
    > 6. Chemotherapy involves poisoning the rapidly-growing cancer cells
    > and also des troys rapidly-growing healthy cells in the bone marrow,
    > gastro-intestinal tract etc, and can cause organ damage, like liver,
    > kidneys, heart, lungs etc.
    >
    > 7. Radiation while destroying cancer cells also burns, scars and
    > damages healthy cells, tissues and organs.
    >
    > 8. Initial treatment with chemotherapy and radiation will often
    > reduce tumor size. However prolonged use of chemothe rapy and
    > radiation do not result in more tumor destruction.
    >
    > 9. When the body has too much toxic burden from chemotherapy and
    > radiation the immune system is either compromised or destroyed,
    > hence the person can succumb to various kinds of infections and
    > complications.
    >
    > 10. Chemotherapy and radiation can cause cancer cells to mutate and
    > become resistant and difficult to destroy. Surgery can also cause
    > cancer cells to spread to other sites.
    >
    > 11. An effective way to battle cancer is to starve the cancer cells
    > by not feeding it with the foods it needs to multiply.
    >
    > WHAT CANCER CELLS FEED ON:
    >
    > a. Sugar is a cancer-feeder. By cutting off sugar it cuts off one
    > important food supply to the cancer cells. Sugar substitutes like
    > NutraSweet, Equal,Spoonful, etc are made with Aspartame and it is
    > harmful. A better natural substitute would be Manuka honey or
    > molasses but only in very sma ll amounts. Table salt has a chemical
    > added to make it w h i te in colour. Better alternative is Bragg's
    > aminos or sea salt.
    >
    > b. Milk causes the body to produce mucus, especially in the
    > gastro-intestinal tract. Cancer feeds on mucus. By cutting off milk
    > and substituting with unsweetened soy milk, cancer cells are being
    > starved.
    >
    > c. Cancer cells thrive in an acid environment. A meat-based diet is
    > acidic and it is best to eat fish, and a little chicken rather than
    > beef or pork. Meat also contains livestock antibiotics, growth
    > hormones and parasites, which are all harmful, especially to people
    > with cancer.
    >
    > d. A diet made of 80% fresh vegetables and juice, whole grains,
    > seeds, nuts and a little fruits help put the body into an alkaline
    > environment. About 20% can be from cooked food includ ing beans.
    > Fresh vegetable juices provide live enzymes that are easily absorbed
    > and reach down to cellular levels within 15 minutes to nourish and
    > enhance growth of healthy cells. To obtain live enzymes for building
    > healthy cells try and drink fresh vegetable juice (most vegetables
    > including bean sprouts) and eat some raw vegetables 2 or 3 times a
    > day. Enzymes are destroyed at temperatures of 104 degrees F (40
    > degrees C).
    >
    > e. Avoid coffee, tea, and chocolate, which have high caffeine.
    > Green tea is a better alternative and has cancer-fighting
    > properties. Water-best to drink purified water, or filtered, to
    > avoid known toxins and heavy metals in tap water. Distilled water is
    > acidic, avoid it.
    >
    > 12. Meat protein is difficult to digest and requires a lot of
    > digestive enzymes. Undigested meat remaining in the intestines
    > become putrified and leads to more toxic buildup.
    >
    > 13. Cancer cell walls have a tough protein covering. By refraining
    > from or eating less meat it frees more e nzymes to attack the
    > protein walls of cancer cells and allows the body's killer cells to
    > destroy the cancer cells.
    >
    > 14. Some supplements build up the immune system (IP6, Flor-ssence,
    > Essiac, anti-oxidants, vitamins, minerals, EFAs etc.) to enable the
    > body's own killer cells to destroy cancer cells. Other supplements
    > like vitamin E are known to cause apoptosis, or programmed cell
    > death, the body's normal method of disposing of damaged, unwanted,
    > or unneeded cells.
    >
    > 15. Cancer is a disease of the mind, body, and spirit. A proactive
    > and positive spirit will help the cancer warrior be a survivor.
    > Anger, unforgiveness and bitterness put the body into a stressful
    > and acidic environment. Learn to have a loving and forgiving spirit.
    > Learn to relax and enjoy life.
    >
    > 16. Cancer cells cannot thrive in an oxygenated environment.
    > Exercising daily, and deep breathing help to get more oxygen down to
    > the cellular level. Oxygen therapy is another means employed to
    > destroy cancer cells.

  • WHAT A HUSBAND ?

    Several men are in the locker room of a golf club. A cell phone on a bench rings and a man engages the hands free speaker function and begins to talk. Everyone else in the room stops to listen.

    MAN: "Hello"

    WOMAN: "Honey, it's me. Are you at the club?"

    MAN: "Yes"

    WOMAN: "I am at the mall now and found this beautiful leather coat. It's only $1,000. Is it OK if I buy it?"

    MAN: "Sure, go ahead if you like it that much."

    WOMAN: "I also stopped by the Mercedes dealership and saw the new 2009 models. I saw one I really liked."

    MAN: "How much?"

    WOMAN: "$90,000"

    MAN: "OK, but for that price I want it with all the options."

    WOMAN: "Great! Oh, and one more thing...the house I wanted last year is back on the market. They're asking $950,000"

    MAN: "Well, then go ahead and give them an offer of $900,000. They will probably take it. If not, we can go the extra 50 thousand if it's really a prettygood price."

    WOMAN: "OK. I'll see you later! I love you so much!"

    MAN: "Bye! I love you, too."

    The man hangs up..

    The other men in the locker room are staring at him in astonishment, mouths agape.

    He turns and asks: "Anyone know to whom this phone belongs to?"

  • Do Not Mess With OLD People

    George Phillips , an elderly man, from Meridian, Mississippi, was going
    to bed, when his wife told him that he'd left the light on in the garden
    shed, which she could see from the bedroom window. George opened the back
    door to go turn off the light, but saw that there were people in the shed stealing things.

    He phoned the police, who asked "Is someone in your house?"

    He said "No," but some people are breaking into my garden shed and stealing from me.

    Then the police dispatcher said "All patrols are busy. You should lock your doors and an officer will be along when one is available."

    George said, "Okay."
    He hung up the phone and counted to 30.

    Then he phoned the police again.

    "Hello, I just called you a few seconds ago because there were people stealing things from my shed.
    Well, you don't have to worry about them now because I just shot them." and he hung up..

    Within five minutes, six Police Cars, a SWAT Team, a Helicopter, two Fire Trucks, a Paramedic, and an Ambulance showed up at the Phillips'
    residence, and caught the burglars red-handed.

    One of the Policemen said to George, "I thought you said that you'd shot them!"

    George said, "I thought you said there was nobody available!"

    Don't mess with old people

    Live well, laugh often, love much!!!

  • PRAY FOR OTHERS

    A voyaging ship was wrecked during a storm at sea and only two of the
    men on it were able to swim to a small, desert like island.
    The two survivors, not knowing what else to do, agreed that they had
    no other recourse but to pray to God. However, to find out whose
    prayer was more powerful, they agreed to divide the territory between
    them and stay on opposite sides of the island.

    The first MAN prayed for food. The next morning, the first
    man saw a fruit-bearing tree on his side of the land, and! he was able
    to eat its fruit. The other man's parcel of land remained barren.

    After a week, the first man was lonely and he decided to pray for a
    wife. The next day, there was a woman who swam to his side of the
    land. On the other side of the island, there was nothing.

    Soon the first man prayed for a house, clothes, more food. The next
    day, like magic, all of these were given to him. However, the second
    man still had nothing.

    Finally, the first man prayed for a ship, so that he and his wife could
    leave the island. In the morning, he found a ship docked at his
    side of the island. The first man boarded the ship with his wife and decided
    to leave the second man on the island. He considered the other man
    unworthy to receive God's blessings, since none of his prayers had
    been answered.

    As the ship was about to leave, the first man heard a voice from
    heaven booming, "Why are you leaving your companion on the island?"
    "My blessings are mine alone, since I was the one who prayed for
    them," the first man answered. "His prayers were all unanswered and so
    he does not deserve anything."

    "You are mistaken!" the voice rebuked him. "He had only one prayer,
    which I answered. If not for that, you would not have received any of
    my blessings."

    "Tell me," the first man asked the voice, "what did he pray for that I
    should owe him anything?"

    "He prayed that all your prayers be answered."

    For all we know, our blessings are not the fruits of our prayers
    alone, but those of another praying for us.

    "What you do for others is more important than what you do for yourself"

    LET US PRAY FOR EACH OTHER.
    Sometimes a prayer & a kind word at the right moment can change a
    life forever.

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