TO WIN THE RESPECT OF INTELLIGENT PEOPLE

AND THE AFFECTION OF CHILDREN

TO EARN THE APPRECIATION OF HONEST CRITICS

AND ENDURE BETRAYAL OF FALSE FRIENDS

TO APPRECIATE BEAUTY

TO FIND BEST IN OTHERS

TO LEAVE THE WORLD A BIT BETTER

WHETHER BY A HEALTHY CHILD

GARDEN PATCH OR A REDEEMED SOCIAL CONDITION

TO KNOW EVEN ONE LIFE

BREATHED EASIER BECAUSE YOU LIVED

THIS TO HAVE SUCEEDED IN LIFE

POET OF THE ABOVE POEM IS UNKNOWN BUT SEEMS TO BE AN ADAPTATION OF THE POEM"SUCCESS"BY BESSIE ANDERSON STANLEY.I HAVE RECOLLECTED THE ABOVE POEM AND DUG IT OUT FROM MY OLD FILES(ATLEAST 26 YEARS OLD)AFTER READING SRJASFERDS ENTRY ABOUT SUCCESS IN HER BLOG.

Parents of a boy are worried about their son who is 8 years old and loves eating pizzas. They brought him to a child psychiatrist. The doctor asked the boy after making the parents sit outside his consulting room what is the problem?The boy replied that he loves pizzas .Then doctor said wow i also love pizzas to which the boy excitedly replied come then to my house i will show you three trunk loads of my pizzas.

THE MORAL OF THE STORY IS ANY THING DONE IN EXCESS WHETHER IT IS EATING,PLAYING GAMES,MUSIC OR SPENDING WITH FRIENDS,IN CLUBS, OR MAKING LOVE IS NOT APPROPRIATE FOR THE MENTAL WELLBEING OF THE PERSON.ANY THING DONE IN MODERATION AND IN APPROPRIATE MANNER CONTRIBUTES TO THE WELLBEING.

FINALLY MY DOCTOR FRIEND ENDED UP SAYING THAT WE HAVE TO ASK OURSELVES THREE SIMPLE QUESTIONS BEFORE DOING ANY THING AND THEY ARE WHEN? WHERE? AND HOWMUCH?.HE ALSO GAVE FOLLOWING EXAMPLES.

WHERE?:A YOUNG COUPLE ARE VISITING WHITEHOUSE AND THEY ARE ON THE STEPS OF THE WHITHOUSE AND APPRECIATING THE GRANDEUR OF THE BUILDING AND SUDDENLY THE MAN FELT LIKE MAKING LOVE TO HIS WIFE.THE QUESTION TO ASK IS WHERE?.ON THE STEPS OF THE BUILDING OR BACK IN THE HOTEL ROOM?

WHEN?:A YOUNG PROFESSOR IS HANDLING A SESSION ON HOW TO BE A NATURAL SELF WITHOUT INHIBITIONS AND SUDDENLLY HE FELT LIKE GOING FOR A PEE. THE QUESTION TO ASK IS WHEN?THEN AND THERE IN THE CLASS ROOM OR TO POSTPONE THE URGE OR POSTPONE THE CLASS?

HOWMUCH?:THIS IS ALREADY ANSWERED BY THE BOY AND PIZZAS STORY.

DO YOU AGREE THAT THERE SHOULD BE BALANCE IN LIFE?

UNAFFECTED BY THE EVER FLOWING EVENTS OR PASSING COMMENTS

MAKES UNDOUBTEDLY A PERSON CENTRED FULLY IN THE CORE