My wife called, 'How long will you be with that newspaper?Will you come here & make your darling daughter eat her food?
I tossed the paper away & rushed to the scene. My only daughter, Bindu, looked frightened; tears were welling up in her eyes. In front of her was a bowl filled to its brim with curd rice. Bindu is a nice child, quite intelligent for her age.
I picked up the bowl. 'Bindu darling, why don't you take a few mouthful of this curd rice? Just for Dad's sake dear. Bindu calmed a bit & wiped her tears with the back of her hands. 'Ok, Dad.. I will eat - not just a few mouthfuls, but the whole lot of this. But, you should...' Bindu hesitated. 'Dad, if I eat this entire curd rice, will you give me whatever I ask for?'
'Promise'. I covered the pink soft hand extended by my daughter with mine, & clinched the deal.
Slowly & wihout relishing much , she finished eating the whole quantity. I was silently angry with my wife & my mother for forcing my child to eat something that she detested.
After the ordeal was through, Bindu came to me with her eyes wide with expectation. All our attention was on her.
'Dad, I want to have my head shaved off, this Sunday!' was her demand.
'Atrocious!' shouted my wife & my mother was furious, 'A girl child having her head shaved off? Impossible!' 'Never in our family!'
'Bindu, darling, why don't you ask for something else? Well be sad seeing you with a clean-shaven head.'
you promised to grant me whatever I ask for. Now, you are going back on your words.
It was time for me to call the shots. 'Our promise must be kept.' 'Are you out of your mind?' chorused my mother & wife. 'No. If we go back on our promises, she will never learn to honour her own. Bindu, your wish will be fulfilled.'
On Monday morning, I dropped her at her school. It was a sight to watch my hairless Bindu walking towards her classroom. She turned around & waved.
I waved back with a smile. Just then, a boy alighted from a car & shouted, 'Bindu, please wait for me!'
What struck me was the hairless head of that boy. 'May be, that is the latest fashion, I thought.
'Sir, your daughter Bindu is great indeed!' Without introducing herself, a lady got out of the car, & continued, 'that boy who is walking along with your daughter is my son James. He is suffering from... leukemia'.
She paused to muffle her sobs. 'James could not attend the school for the whole of the last month. He lost all his hair due to the side effects of the chemotherapy. He refused to come back to school fearing the unintentional but cruel teasing of the schoolmates. Bindu visited him last week & promised him that she will take care of the teasing issue. But, I never imagined she would sacrifice her lovely hair for the sake of my son!
Sir, you & your wife are blessed to have such a noble soul as your daughter..'
I stood transfixed & then, I wept. 'My little Angel, you are teaching me how selfless real love is!'
The happiest people are not those who live on their own terms but are those who change their terms for the ones whom they love
